Date: 07/04/2001
From: Charmed07

My friend that I will call "Audrey" has a problem. She knows these two guys...both are really sweet, kind, smart, mature, and cute....Mark and Paul. She's know them since she was a little girl, and they all grew up around the same neighbourhood, and have been close friends for a long time. Audrey really likes them....and last night, Paul kissed her, and this morning, Mark told Audrey that she was a beautiful girl and that he would like to go on a date with her next week. Audrey has no clue which one she should go for.

There's another problem though....Audrey is 15, and Mark and Paul are 21. Her parents may not let her date either of them.

So, how should Audrey choose between Mark and Paul? And when that's done...what can she do to convince her parents that she is emotionally-ready and trustworthy enough to be in a relationship with a family friend who has a considerable age difference?

There's a reason why her parents

Date: 07/04/2001
From: Henrytheslidingdog

will not allow it. You do know that it's called STATUTORY RAPE, don't you? When one is underage, either male or female, and the other is legal, this is a crime. No if, ands or buts. Doesn't matter if it was consensual or not, it's still a crime with jail time.

So you want to have a fling? A fling that will send one person to jail, then go for it. You want some fun at the expense of another, then do it. Nothing's going to stop you if you really want it. You'll just pay for it later be it pregnancy, STDs, AIDS, etc. It's your life and you're the one going to live it.

Also, there's only one thing that these guys want from a 15 year old and that isn't love. No matter if he says he loves you, that's a lie. Once he's gotten what he wants, he'll just toss you away just like the others.

No reason will convince the parents to change their minds.

You want advice, but I doubt seriously you will take anyone's. It's your life. Do with it as you please. Just don't come crying or blaming anyone else for your decision.

 

Woof
Henry

Okay, Charmed, I mean, "Audrey"...

Date: 07/04/2001
From: Brand_S

My advice: If this is even true, stay away from either one. I shouldn't have to explain why.

S

Here's what you do.

Date: 07/04/2001
From: CoolSlider

You have Mark and Paul fight to the death. Give them whatever. Axes, swords, guns, pepper spray, small children, you name it. Have them put on a good show and even charge people to come in and watch it.

The first one to die loses. So your friend gets the winner.

Then you use the money earned from the show to buy a fucking clue that NOBODY FUCKING CARES ABOUT THIS SHIT.

CoolSlider

Hmm...

Date: 07/04/2001
From: Informant

Well, first of all, if they both come up out of nowhere and do all this, they're probably both liars. And they probably planned it together.

Secondly, a 15 year old shouldn't be in a relationship with a 21 year old. Not only does ever 15 year old think they're really mature and adult, only to realize a couple years later that they were immature kids, but a 15 year old shouldn't be in the type of relationship that this 21 year old guys probably want.

Don't Be Stupid

Date: 07/04/2001
From: sliderlynn

I just can't understand why teen-age girls and adult
women fall for this stupid line, the guys give. The
female of the speicies is really not that smart.men will
give a bunch of lines, so, that women will fall for them.
The females are like fish.throw them a line with some
bate,take it and pull them in.You should really see
Jerry O'Connell's movie *TomCats*, it shows how the
male animal works, just to have sex.Jerry actually did
his female fans a favor with this movie.If you are smart,
you will learn the tricks and lies guys will use on a
woman , for sex.
Don't be stupid. Mark and Paul only want one thing.
Tell them both to take along walk off a very short
pier.And pray they can't swim!!!!Do as your parents want.
You want your parents to trust you ????? Then stay away
fron these two losers !!!!!!!! Stay with kids your own
age. Confide more in your parents. Don't forget that old
saying, * Been there, Done that*, your parents were your
age once too.
I was very lucky in this respect. My dad sat down
with me, when I started to date. He is the one that taught
me all about how and what some guys will do for sex. I
took my dad's advice. He is a very wise man. I am thankful
that he loved me enough to teach me this lesson, so long
ago. Take this adive from a woman, who cares what happens
to you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)

You *should* marry a 23 year old.

Date: 07/04/2001
From: SpaceTime

Come on, tender baby. 21 year old guys aren't mature enough to know what a 15 year old woman wants. That's where I come in. Let us bask in GLORY together.

Think about it.

- ST

Thanks, y'all

Date: 07/05/2001
From: Charmed07

I talked to Audrey about the advice you gave, and she's decided not to pursue anything...though, she does think she'll dicktease them....LOL...it'll be fun to watch Aud in action. LOL

ok

Date: 07/05/2001
From: SlidersRocks

Ok well in my opinion a 15 year has no right to even be dating in the first place. God people that age need to worry about school and their family. What's wrong with this girl who thinks that she needs to please someone else at that age when she still in J.H. To me that's sad, Im guessing your from a small town. It makes me think that's she's lacking something at home to be looking outside the family structure. Now if she was 17 and over I wouldnt have a problem with that.

Dean

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