I
Stand Corrected(bbr)
Date: 05/03/2000
From: DariaTeen
Not that I really think anyone gives a sh*t,but...
Well,Charmed's mom told me that while she REALLY is in the hospital for a bursted appendix,there was a little bit she didn't tell me.A search through her room turned up enough diet pills,laxatives,caffine pills,sleeping pills,and diurectics to start up her own pharmacy.(Her mom even found a baggie of Speed)There was also a weight chart in her journal that documents her weight loss from 120 pounds to a whopping(see sarcastic tone here) 81 pounds in just four WEEKS.She's being kept in the hospital to rectify her malnourishment and hopefully to put on some much needed pounds.I also think she is being evaluated by shrinks.
I feel so phucking stupid.I can not believe that I didn't see something was going on.I mean,2 years ago *I* was the one who found out about her bulimia and got her to get over it.I thought that it was over.I mean,she seemed so happy a few weeks ago,and she was so excited about her school play.WHY didn't I see it?Also,why would a healthy 14-year old starve herself to a damn near deadly weight?If anything,*I* should have been the one who saw it.Oh,well.
What is it with everbody's obsession to be thin?I am 5'8" and weigh 110 pounds.I'm not fat,and I'm also not bone skinny.I don't wanna be some six-foot tall supermodel that weighs 90 pounds.I'm actually HAPPY with my body.(Oh,that makes me INSANE!)
Well,over and out.
Yes...
Date: 05/03/2000
From: SpaceTime
So happy with your body that you've had sex with 15 guys before your 18th birthday... you're *so* balanced...- ST
Well,Matty
Date: 05/03/2000
From: DariaTeen
Yeah,I was with 15 different partners.But they weren't cheap one-night stands.They were actual relationships.I know girls who've slept with so many people that they can't even count them all.Trust me,15 ain't that much,even for a 17-year old.
Uh,
DariaTeen!
Date: 05/03/2000
From: Slider_Sarah
Yeah, 15 is a lot for a 17 year old! I mean it would be legal here, and so there are more verging on that. 15 is above the norm. I don't know any 17 year old who's had more than 10 partners, and I only know one of them!Sarah.
Oh
and,
Date: 05/03/2000
From: Slider_Sarah
Did you not notice with what she was saying on the board? It sounded pretty obvious from here. Maybe I think differently.I do hope she's okay, whatever the problems.
And I'm still happy to be 125!
Sarah.
17?!
Thats the whole Football team!
Date: 05/03/2000
From: Sabre_Edge
17 is average?! No one we have all these teenage Pregancies! Damn! And 17 "real" relationships. What the relationship becomes "real" after a week or after the third time, which ever comes first?!SE
Guys.....
Date: 05/03/2000
From: DariaTeen
Fine.15 is a good deal amount.For 5 years,I've been with an average of 3 or 4 guys a year.Each relationship lasted at least 6 weeks.One even lasted for three months.Well,I'm also sticking with my 110,Slider_Sarah.
Ummm...
Date: 05/03/2000
From: SingularVisions
You know, you really SHOULD go to the school board with both you and Charmed's parents and advocate the firing of that irresponsible drama instructor.HE is what got her into this mess! That asshole should know better than to mess with a child's sense of self esteem like that.
As for you being with more than 15 guys at age 17, perhaps you should evaluate your reasons for doing that. I doubt they'd be logical or sensible. Your actions are not the mark of a mature woman, and your actions are also a destructive behavior. Perhaps you should also evaluate your risks of sexually transmitted deseases by counting the number of times you've used birth control and/or condoms. Given the numbers already, I'm sure you already have at least a couple of STDs.
Think about what you're doing before it's too late. Or else you'll find yourself in the middle of a lot of problems later. Among those problems include unwanted pregnancy and STDs, which I have already mentioned.
I'm not trying to criticize you. Just attempting to give you some advice so you can help yourself rather than destroy yourself.
- SingularVisions
NEVER
call me Matty. Period.
Date: 05/03/2000
From: SpaceTime
I really have to laugh at what you believe constitutes a "real" relationship. SIX WEEKS. Absolutely ridiculous. I've been dating the same chick for over five years. That's a real relationship.Despite what you think, you are not mature. You are a stupid little kid who thinks that "long term" means a financial quarter. Wake up. You're a whore.
And to whoever said it's the drama teacher's fault, that's a fucking stupid assertion as well. If Charmed had a prior history of rapid weight loss, it's called A RELAPSE. Charmed justified her weight loss on making herself look good for the role. Since 99% of what she says is bullshit, I'm not placing too much credence in her claims against the teacher. No fucking teacher is that stupid.
We've got a fourteen-year-old bulimic and a 17-year-old whore. "They're GRRRRRRRRRR-reat!"
-ST
It's
good to be proven right, but...
Date: 05/03/2000
From: FogBoy
...I admit, it's also kinda sad.
And
while I'm at it, DariaTeen...
Date: 05/03/2000
From: FogBoy
5'8 and 110 pounds?That's not so far removed from Charmed's problem. You might wanna join her.
Holy
Christ! I knew it!
Date: 05/03/2000
From: Le_Modus
Is she ok? When's she comin' out?LM
Right,SpaceTime
Date: 05/03/2000
From: DariaTeen
I'm a little bed-hoppin' whore that can't stop doing every guy I see.Yep,and on my 17th birthday I screwed the entire football varsity team.Is THAT what you want to hear,ST?Okay,yeah,so I do have relationships that go by very fast.So what?I'm 17 years old,not 10 or 40.I wanna explore new possibilities.I just don't like being alone,okay?Besides,I know I'm not some big grownup.I'm still a teenager,and I still have plenty of growing up to do.But at least I don't do drugs,right?At least I can proudly say that I don't indulge in one vice.
And as for getting pregnant,it's not like I have unprotected sex.I've been on birth control since I was 16,plus there are always condoms(both the male AND female) and The Mourning After Pill.I'm not planning on screwing up my life with a child or a disease.I don't plan on getting married or having babies until I'm at least in my late 20s.
FogBoy,Katie Holmes is my height and weighs 108.(Or,at least she did in the 1st season of DC)You don't see people saying that she is anorexic.Some people are just naturally skinny.I've never weighed more than 115 pounds in my entire life.I have tried to gain weight before,but I guess I just have a fast metabolism.Like I said before,I am happy with how I look.I eat healthy portions of food.I don't obsess on how to lose weight and become a size 0.I may be many things,but an eating disorder victim is not one of them.
Weird.
Date: 05/03/2000
From: Brand_S
What's weird? I actually can't think of anything to say in response to all this. Um, let's see... I'm 17... I'm a virgin... I exercise... Drawing a blank here. Ah well.S
Actually,
you know...
Date: 05/03/2000
From: FogBoy
I think DariaTeen pretty much nailed it on the head with the first paragraph of her last post. Sheesh, Charmed may have an eating disorder every other month, which is sad, but at least she has the smarts to not be thrusting her genitals towards everything that may or may not have a male sex organ.Six weeks isn't a relationship, six weeks is barely a fling.
Oh,Yeah
Date: 05/04/2000
From: DariaTeen
I'm also a cheerleader.I've been on the school squads for 4 years now,and I've been in a non-school cheerleading squad called The Diamond Elite for 2 years.I wonder how many jokes you guys are going to get at that?
If
I may say so myself...
Date: 05/04/2000
From: mrbrown1602
I agree with SpaceTime wholeheartly with the words, "You're a dirty whore"I'm 16 and even I know that a real relationship is NOT three days or even six weeks... basically its anything over 3.5 years! I haven't had sex, I'm still a virgin - and quite frankly I don't give a damn.
You want to explore new possibilities? Well lets see... SEX is aparentaly NOT a new possibility anymore since you've gotten laid 30+ times! Goto the library and explore fine art, such as Van Gogh's works or the works of the great de Vinci. Go do something productive like watching the Learning Channel or something.
Hell - even make outrageous bids on eBay if you can't think of anything productive to do. At least it'll stop you from nailing every god damned person you come up to that you think you "truly" love. Hell even try some whacked up masturbation methods if you can't stop with your loving and your obsession of nailing guys!
I've truly loved *ONE* (1, uno, un) person in my entire life. And I personally don't think I could every love anybody else... even though I have about 1/1000000th (that's 1 one millionth) of a chance with her. (being two years older than I am)
And let me tell you something else, bucco.... birth control IS NOT 100% fool proof. Condoms BREAK - they're just latex (same thing as the rubber gloves doctors use!), and you're still subject to all the dangers and evils of the world.
-mrbrown1602
Hava Nagila!
Keep
us informed about Charmed's health
Date: 05/04/2000
From: Slider_Dee
Hopefully this latest hospital stay will scare Charmed enough to come to her senses about weight and food. She's playing a dangerous game with her health (remember Karen Carpenter of the 1970s??)Thanks for the Charmed update and keep us informed, OK DariaTeen?
As for .... uh ..... sex, in my crowd most people waited until they got married, and the ones who didn't were in a monogamous relationship that lasted YEARS. Promiscuity is not and never has been cool.
DeeDee
I
hope Charmed is going to be okay.
Date: 05/04/2000
From: Afl
Charmed will be in my prayers. As for DariaTeen, I think a lot of us are being a little harsh towards her. Calling her a whore isn't going to get her to see our side, it will only push her away and make her angry.DariaTeen, you have to ask yourself...why did you start having sex to begin with? Were you influenced by peer pressure, the media, or was this a choice you made by yourself without any influences? You said you are 17 and have been having sex for 5 years. That would mean you've been having sex since you were 12 years old...6th Grade or 7th Grade. I'm sorry to say it, but that is way too young to start having sex. A year before you would have been still a child.
I know that one year at that age or even at 17 can seem like a very long time; but I'm in my mid-20's and I can tell you...it seems just like yesterday I graduated from High School. Then I get thinking about it and I think...gee...my 10 year reunion will be coming up in a couple of years. I'll be 30 before I know it. AHHH! How time flies! And every year time goes by even faster.
You've got your whole life ahead of you DariaTeen and you shouldn't be so worried that you'll be alone. As you can see from many people on the BBoard, there are many teens that are still virgins and plan to be until their married. I'm in my mid-20's and planning on waiting until I'm married.
Both my sisters got involved with guys and had sex before they were married. Both wish they had been a little wiser about it now though because one of them is still suffering from the consequences from one of those relationships 5 to 6 years after she left him. He's a very revengful person. I don't want to have to go through the heartache and anguish (and I'm not exaggerating about the anguish part) that my sisters have or have had. They are both about a decade older than I am so I can safely say I can learn from their mistakes.
I have religious reasons as well, but seeing what my sisters' have had to go through helped me to decide that I don't want to take the risk. Then there is the disease factor and the possibility that you can get pregnant. I know of someone who even had their tubes tide because she didn't want to have any more children and she still got pregnant. So nothing is fool proof and nothing has a 100% certainty. Then if you get a STD, you'll be plagued with that for the rest of your life. Do you think guys will want to sleep with you if they know you have an STD? And NOT telling them about would not be fair to them.
Bottom line DariaTeen, sex is not what it's all cracked up to be and I'd rather wait until I'm married and know the man that I'm with loves me for me rather than how many times I'll sleep with him. Do you really think those guys respect you that sleep with you? Don't you think the reason they date you is because it's public knowledge within the high school that you're easy? Wouldn't you rather be with a man that loves you and respects you for who you are and that is why they want to sleep with you? Not just because you're easy and they know it?
You have ask yourself what your real priorities and goals are for the future and then not do anything that will jeopardize it.
Just something to ponder.
AfL :)
Oh
my God!
Date: 05/04/2000
From: Doctor_Quinn
Once again, I do *NOT* mean that in vain! I knew something like that would happen. <Sigh> I hope she finds help.
The good doctor
Get
well Charmed! <end>
Date: 05/04/2000
From: slider409
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